What Divorce Lawyers (Almost) Never Do In Their Marriages

Given their profession, divorce attorneys have a unique point of view when it comes to marriage. (Though it’s not as cynical as you might think.)

They’ve seen the good, the bad and the ugly of relationships, and learned what to steer clear of in their own marriages.

Below, they share the bad habits they personally try to avoid with their spouses.

They don’t check their partner’s phone.

New York divorce attorney Marilyn Chinitza partner at the firm Blank Romesaid she would never go through her husband’s emails or text messages ― or his pockets.

“If you find yourself in a position where you want to do that, it already tells you there’s a problem in the marriage,” she told HuffPost. “If I was suspicious enough to start snooping around, that’s a big issue.”

Plus, checking your partner’s phone without permission just establishes (or perpetuates) a pattern of secretive

“The 50/50 Thing Is A Myth”: Divorce Lawyer Reveals The Main Reason Why Marriages Are Failing, And People Are Not Surprised

Marriage is intended to be till death do you part, but sometimes, spouses change their minds and realize that the best option is to cut ties. There are plenty of valid reasons for getting a divorce, but according to one New York-based divorce lawyer, one reason in particular has been coming up again and again among working mothers.

Below, you’ll find a video that attorney Dennis R. Vetrano Jr. shared on TikTok breaking down the most common theme he’s noticed in divorces recently.

Unfortunately, marriage can’t always be “till death do you part”

Image credits: Timur Weber (not the actual photo)

And according to divorce attorney Dennis R. Vetrano Jr., many working mothers have had enough of their marriages

“Do you want to know the major theme that I’m seeing in the divorce industry, as a divorce lawyer, as I do consults these days?”

Image credits: drvlaw

“I am seeing